Behind cheating on a spouse...

ARE YOU A CHEATER?

We all know people who have been the cheater or have been cheated on in what should be trusting deep relationships.  And guess what?  These people look just like you and me...there is nothing outstanding about them. That’s because they could be you and me.  Circumstances and the workings of your inner mind cause people to react in ways they never thought possible.

For most of us who have not been the cheater- okay wait....there was that time when I was breaking up with my boyfriend but I was yet to tell him and I took up with someone else- does that count?...but I digress...so for most of us who have not been the cheater, we judge, criticize and condemn the cheater but, in some if not most cases, if we understood that this behaviour often begins with living with low self-esteem, low self worth and a lack of true ego strength we might actually begin to create some compassion in our hearts for these people.  Nobody sets out to hurt the one they love by cheating on them and if they do, they have issues with love that are deeply inherent to poor internal dialogue and self-esteem.  But that’s another issue...

I’ve met many good people in my life that have made mistakes with poor judgement at times in their lives.  We are all vulnerable to making the wrong choice at the wrong time.  

If you are a cheater or if you have lived with your partner cheating on you then look behind the behaviour for the root cause and no doubt you will find issues in self-worth, low self-esteem, ego and judgement.  

Clinical Hypnotherapy helps you look at the deep down issues so you can move forward in your life with peace and happiness.  My advice to you is to build your own inner ego, self-esteem and self-worth, not in an egotistical way and then help others to improve theirs.  This world would be a better place if we all focus on personal growth as opposed to blame, hurt and self righteousness.